Hello everyone!
This
month we are going to be talking about team building, especially as it pertains
to worship teams. Building a team
usually begins with a process of choosing those who are going to be part of
your team. However, you may be in a situation, like I am in,
where you are working with an already established team of musicians whom you
have been given the responsibility of leading.
Either
way, Team building has many different aspects to it. One aspect I want to talk about is the people
aspect, or the human or relational element.
It is of the utmost importance to know how to relate to people in a team
setting, especially when working together with other musicians of varied
personality types, with their individual strengths, weaknesses, and musical abilities,
to name a few issues.
To be
effective leaders, we must learn how to listen, even embrace the willingness to listen to others and
their suggestions and input, even though this may include disagreement from time to time
on approach or other things related to our worship presentation.
As a leader, we may have the final say on things, but we still must be willing to hear people out.
Should we exclude people expressing views, we will be shutting them out of the process, even alienating them. This
could result in the loss of a valued team member. We really want to avoid that where possible.
Treating
our team members with dignity and respect is an absolute necessity if we want
to gain their trust and respect. So when
those times where we, as leaders, happen to be in a bad mood or haven’t had our
coffee yet (Mocha!), we still need to remember to hold our tongues
when need be, or to just take a deep breath to calm ourselves. I’m not saying we need to put on painted
smiles and be phony, only that we must learn to keep our mouths in check. We all appreciate being treated nicely by
others. A good rule of thumb is to think twice when you're not entirely focused - and even when you are - before speaking!
Another
thing that goes a long way towards team building is courtesy, remembering to say "Thank
you", "You’re welcome", and showing genuine appreciation to others for
their contributions to the team and for a job well done.
While
the idea as musicians in a worship setting may not be for self adulation and
recognition, having the worship leader or other team members show verbal
appreciation is almost always appropriate.
What musician doesn’t like to hear someone say, “Dude, that was a smoking
hot solo”! Come on now, we all like it,
especially when it is a sincere compliment.
Paying
attention to the other team members and showing genuine interest in their lives
and what they may be going through both in and outside of 'church' time, will help us all,
especially those of us who are leaders, to build strong and healthy relationships with one
another.
It is
also great to hear as a worship leader, from the other team members now and
then, words of encouragement and support.
Although
the focus this time has not been specifically music related, all of these
elements are essential aspects of team building. If we hope to build strong, healthy,
and vibrant worship team ministries in our churches, you can't ignore this fact.
So,
until next time, keep on worshipping the King of kings and the Lord of lords,
for he alone is worthy, Amen?
JB