Hello everyone!
Welcome
to this month’s installment.
This
month’s column comes in the midst of another transition for me. Transition is something we will all
experience many times in our lifetime. For most of us change is not always an
easy thing to deal with, however, it is something we will all experience.
In
my present situation, as the new worship leader for a very small church, I have
experienced many changes that have been, to say the least, very challenging. After
taking lots of time to pray and seek the Lord for direction and also taking the
time to seriously consider what it is I am looking for in terms of a church, I
have decided that it is time for me to move on.
This
decision was agreed upon by both my wife and I. We both feel the same way. Although
there have been several challenges in working with the new worship team and
many difficult situations to deal with, I have learned quite a bit. I choose to
take what I have experienced in the relatively short time I have been part of
this small church, and learn from it.
For
me, this will be the shortest period of time I have ever been part of a church
and then moved on. It has been roughly 4 months. Without going into specifics,
it is very clear to us that it is time for us to make a change.
My
encouragement to everyone who is in a time of transition, especially one
involving changing churches, is to be sure to seek the Lord, pray, look for
confirmation, then be obedient to what the Lord is telling you to do. Yes, it can
be hard to leave a situation, especially when you are beginning to get to know
people and become familiar with things, but it is more important to obey what
the Lord is telling you to do. He knows better than we do, he is God.
It
is also important to us, to make a smooth transition as we move on from this
place to another. In a similar way, as when changing jobs or companies, it is
important that we don’t burn any bridges, especially as believers who are all
part of the same family of God, we should all the more, seek to act in love
towards one another. We look forward to seeing where the Lord will place us
next.
Until
next time, keep on worshiping the King!
JB
[Ed. Note: There is also the aspect of
learning that sometimes we make decisions that are not aligned with God, in
that we moved according to a belief that God was directing our steps in a given
direction. We learn only after the fact that the information, the belief, was
flawed – for whatever reason. The important part of this kind of situation is
to recognize the reality, and that God is telling us we took a bad step, and correct
the error on our part and restore our obedience to His will.
In
some instances, we move according to the Lord’s direction, but the time we are
in a situation is intentionally limited by God for a reason. In such cases, it
is often that we were brought into that situation to affect a change or to
minister to someone in need – and then move on to the next “assignment” the
Lord has in store.
I
myself belonged to a wonderful church for just eight months. I was a welcomed
addition and had been given the task of leading the worship band by giving them
a firm foundation and clear direction in how to structure worship – and also to
remove people who were a disruptive element, which I was sadly tasked with
doing in one instance.
Then,
suddenly, the Lord literally moved me a thousand miles away to a new state and
city because my work at that church – even after just eight months – and in
that city (five years) as a whole, was finished.
Transitions
come because the Lord is in charge, period. We are His servants and we must
respond to His direction and instruction, no matter how much we love the
situation we are in (as I loved that new church!). When our work is done, we
must accept it and ‘move on’ to the next job the Lord has in mind. And that
means sometimes we move away, we leave a job, a church, a city, a state…even a
country.
And
it is here I think Romans 8:28 applies most clearly:
“And
we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love
God, to those who are called according to His
purpose.”
So,
whether we mistakenly take steps believing it is the Lord’s will, or are
obedient, in both cases, if we truly desire to serve God with all our heart, He
will turn our circumstances around, continue to direct us, so we are inevitably
moving forward in His purpose and will for our lives.
And
that means transitions are going to be a regular feature of most of our lives.]